Mormon Morsels
Family History
Photo of Marie Garff Gudmundson
I am in the Primary Presidency in my ward and this year the Stake has set a goal that every child from 8 to 11 submit a family name to the temple. I was completely overwhelmed by this, thinking how can I encourage these kids to do something I don’t do? So this last week I started and I am so grateful I did. It has been amazing to work with my 9 year old son finding out all we can about our family history. I have truly felt the spirit of Elijah in our home. I found out that one of my ancestors ironed shirts for Abraham Lincoln, that I have ancestors who came over on the Mayflower, and that many of my ancestors were pioneers who gave up everything for their faith. My great grandmother wrote a poem for her grandmother thanking her for the sacrifices she made. This poem touched my heart greatly and made me realize how being asked to encourage the children in primary to do family history is such a small task compared to what others in my family have been asked and were willing to do. The poem is as follows:
WRITTEN BY: FANNY GUDMUNDSON BRUNT
Today we sang the old songs you sang so long ago,
Today I read your history, proud to let my friends all know
That in my veins runs noble blood, so fine so pure and true
Inherited from pioneers, such fearless ones as you.
All is well, I hear you singing by your campfire on the plains,
As the darkness of the prairie vibrates the sweet refrains;
I see your fretful baby nestle closer to your breast,
As those strains of gentle music, lull the little one to rest.
I see the baby start with fear get closer, hold you tight,
As the cry of a hungry wolf pack breaks the stillness of the night,
Perhaps your heart would start to pound and wake him from his sleep
A thousand dangers threatened, as your vigil you would keep.
I see your husband lowered in a hole beside the trail
Watched by weeping children, and you so weak and frail,
The spot obliterated, and a few miles farther west,
In a little prairie grave your tiny girl is laid to rest.
I see you pushing on your heavy laden cart,
Laughing talking with your boys, to hide a breaking heart;
Your hands and face, that in Denmark had been so soft and fair,
Now calloused, blistered, bleeding, and tanned by sun and desert air.
How the memory of your homeland must have caused your blood to burn,
Comparing this with life back home, if you would but return;
But you kept your face turned westward, praying for a helping hand
To guide you and your hungry boys into the Promised Land.
And then your reach that summit of that last steep rocky hill,
And you look down in the valley, barren, desolate, and still,
As you viewed that land of promise you had come so far to gain,
Ah, Grandma, did your heart ache, did you whimper and complain?
No, bravely down the mountain side with blistered feet you go,
Cheered by smoke from chimneys in some mud roofed huts below,
That curling smoke, and those little huts, and the fragrance in the air,
Bespoke of warmth and friendship, that pilgrims long to share.
To the mountain tops of Zion, you had wandered from afar,
Security and freedom had been your guiding star,
But when you go to bed that night, weary sore and weak,
Your bed is made among strangers, whose tongue you cannot speak.
A frail little Danish mother, with hand unused to work,
Must feed four husky hungry boys, you must not could not shirk,
Your money gone and nothing left to feed the little breed,
Your dear dead baby’s precious clothes were traded off for food.
Volumes could be written on the hardships that you bore,
Sometimes it seemed the heavens were sealed, and your prayers were heard no more.
The faith that had sustained you through those long, long weary miles,
Was often weakened, almost lost through unexpected trials.
You passed by ninety milestones, never reached a place of fame,
But you left a great posterity, who honors your dear name.
No earthly goods you left behind, to cause discord or strife,
No bells tolled, nor flags flew half mast, when you passed out of life.
The world moved on without a pause, and when your bit of clay,
Was tucked back into mother earth, and the mourners went their way,
Me thinks I hear the angel ushers, there at Heavens Gate,
Say, “Welcome, and well done Marie, take your place among the great!”
He Is the Christ
Amen, Pres. Smith. Amen.
Image from LDS.org.
Look Not Behind Thee
It’s a new year.
And of course, we all have at least thought about what our goals are for 2014. Sometimes we may not want to even try for goals because we have experienced failure in the past. Maybe we are bitter at where life has “brought” us up to this point. Maybe we can’t let the past go.
But we should remember this:
Failure is only the opportunity to begin again, only this time more wisely. –Henry Ford
Lot’s wife had the opportunity to begin again. She didn’t take it. Really, she didn’t just “look” back, she yearned for what she didn’t want to leave behind. She had comfort there and was unwilling to leave that comfort zone. She had no faith in what the Lord had in store for her.
What comfort zone are we wrapped up snugly in? And why are we so unwilling to leave it for frontiers unknown? What are we afraid of? Failure? Pain? Disappointment?
We must make a choice between suffering the pain of making mistakes (often inaccurately equated with failure) or the pain of regret. I mean, let’s face it….that’s the choice. Because none of us will pursue a goal without making mistakes. But nearly every worthy goal left unpursued will become a regret.
If we fail to give our best personal self and undivided time to those who are truly important to us, one day we will regret it. –Dieter F. Uchtdorf
This quote applies not only to loved ones but to ourselves. We should be truly important to ourselves! And if we don’t give our best personal selves TO ourselves in order to achieve our goals, we will be filled with regret and remorse.
As we give our best selves to ourselves and our loved ones, let’s remember to be kind to us. Let’s remember that we improve ourselves in small, consistent ways. Progress, not perfection. Steady, persistent improvements in our lives will yield amazing results.
My grandfather used to love to ask me this question: If I paid you a penny the first day but doubled that pay each day after that for a whole month would you work for me? The total after 30 days is $5,368,709.12!!!! But it all started with one little penny.
Go ahead. Invest a penny in 2014.
“True and Faithful”
I have a connection to the 10th president of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I was born on his birthday, July 19th (a mere 88 years after his 1876 birth). I am excited to study his teachings this year in Relief Society. As I was perusing the first lesson in the new manual for our 2014 course of study, I read the following the words:
Taken from the manual, Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph Fielding Smith, “President Joseph Fielding Smith ‘used three words that I can never forget, ‘ recalled President Gordon B. Hinckley. Those words were “true and faithful.’ President Hinckley said, “In his public addresses, in his private conversation, in his prayers to the Lord, he pleaded that we might be true and faithful.” President Thomas S. Monson shared a similar memory: “Even in his advanced years, [he] always prayed, ‘May we be true and faithful to the end.'”
My initial reaction was, “huh, that’s not what I was expecting”. Then it hit me! President Smith had been born into a family that had experienced many dramatic events in the history of the church. His grandfather, Hyrum Smith, was martryed alongside his brother Joseph Smith (the founder) of the Mormon church. His father, Joseph F. Smith, was only 5 years old when his father was martyred and helped his family migrate to Salt Lake City across the plains. His mother, Julina Smith, came from pioneer stock as well. His heritage was rich indeed. Therefore, being “true and faithful” was a magnanimous task yet so pertinent and straightforward to the heart of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
I began to ponder how my life could be changed for the better if I were to put those 3 words to the test. I desire to be “true and faithful” to the end. I decided to make these 3 words part of my New Year. May we all be found striving to be “true and faithful”.
Family
12 years ago today I got the best Christmas present of my life, I married my husband for time and all eternity in the Idaho Falls LDS Temple. The greatest lesson I have learned in these last 12 years of marriage is that this life is made more full, more happy, and more meaningful by being a part of a family unit.
In The Family: A Proclamation to the World the First Presidency of the church states:
“THE FAMILY is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.”
I am so grateful for my family and especially for my husband who is devoted to me and his 3 (almost 4) children. I pray that you and your family be blessed this holiday season and that you remember what a gift it is to be a part of a family!
The Reason Behind Christmas
Mr. Krueger’s Christmas
If you haven’t seen this, you have to watch it. Few people can really capture the humility and sweetness of a character better than the beloved Jimmy Stewart. My favorite part is when he daydreams himself into the nativity. So sweet.
There is a version on YouTube that is all one video, but the quality is not as good as the ones below:
Gratitude In Action
Gratitude Is A Virtue
Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin of the Quorum of the 12 Apostles has a said,
I have seen in my own life the blessings that come from practicing Gratitude. If I find myself completely down in the dumps, and it happens, I have found that counting my blessings lifts my spirits! Simply thinking of my many, many blessings can change my outlook on my life. I am so grateful for this testimony.
My blessings are too numerous to count. I see that my Heavenly Father is mindful of me and makes things happen in my life that lead me to him. All that I have comes from my Heavenly Father. May you too remember to count your blessings and be grateful. Practice an “attitude of Gratitude.”




